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Procrastination is a dream killer.
Fear keeps you in a shell.
You can start that little business today and watch it grow massively.
You can start that little thing today and watch it grow.

   Its the second month of the year and you ought to have achieved your second goal for the year, but in case you've not plss #StartNow and run with speed for the future waits for no man...

(According as His divine power hath given unto us all things that pertain unto life and godliness, through the knowledge of him that hath called us to glory and virtue (2Peter1vs3)..

Happy new month to us all..
#joydiligence

In Consistency Lies The Power

Do you believe in this saying that "people who give up easily doesn't go far in life"?
Do you believe the saying that "challenges that comes to you on your way to success is not to destroy you but to equip you for good"?
The challenges and difficulties we meet on our way to the top aren't what kills our dreams; INCONSISTENCY does.
What is inconsistency? Displaying a lack of consistency, Not capable of being made consistent or harmonious.

If there are inconsistencies in two statements, one cannot be true if the other is true. If you refer to someone's inconsistency, you are criticizing them for not behaving in the same way every time a similar situation occurs. Inconsistency tends to have done more harm than good; it kills dreams more than anything else.
Most writers write a book for 5-10years, not that its a set time but because they're inconsistent.

Some dreams died due to inconsistency on the part of the bearer. You agreed to write at least 2pages per day but you later dropped to 1and later stopped writing at all. And before you knew what was going on the interest for writing was lost entirely; that was exactly how the dream of becoming a great author died and was buried without trace.

         There are several things that can contribute to this, and so for one to avoid inconsistency in the race, you must watch ..
¹. YOUR COMPANY: This is one thing that motivates ones efficacy, there's no form of magic attached to it. If you have set of unserious friends, then you'll never be serious. Let your company be a driving force that compels you to be consistent.
². FOLLOW PEOPLE OF LIKE VISION: Follow or stay with people of same vision. Let them be people that believes in what you believe in, people you can run to when you run short of ideas and they'll have some to offer/ or share.

³. YOUR EMOTIONS: Never be too emotional while chasing your dreams. Be serious, be focused, do what you ought to do and avoid sentiments.

   And the greatest of them all is
⁴. YOUR WILL: Unless you agree within yourself; all those motivational talks aren't gonna work for you. Your own will; in it lies YOUR GREATEST MOTIVATION. 
I am the only one that can make myself succeed, other things are secondary. There's nothing I so much wished for that I don't go for, and I don't get finally.
I read in school not really because others are reading but because its my will to make the best grades and its always that way; I read and I make my grades that's the POWER OF WILL.
Its my WILL that I remain CONSISTENT. Then I will be consistent and never going against my WILL______

    So I implore you; be CONSISTENT IF YOU WANNA GO FAR IN LIFE.
Inconsistency kills.
Procrastination kills.
Be loyal and committed.
Stand in good stead.
Steal the show and be bold you did.
See you on top..
              #Joydiligence

You know, I wasn't really into this ten years challenge that's about ending or that just ended rather due to the fact that I've got no old pictures..

But I learnt something, its not really about pictures; old and recent.

 Its not about how fat, plumpy or skinny you've grown within the few years (in case that's all you think about it). 

Its about the impacts so far, its about the achievements, its about the dreams you were able to actualize within the period..

I saw people who were nothing as at 6years ago but todday they're counted among the greatest.
I saw people whom through torns, hardship and frustrations were able to go far and I was wondering, IF THEY ARE ABLE TO DO IT, THEN WHY CAN'T I?

ChooseToBePositive
BelieveYouCanDoItNoMaterWhat

#joydiligence

DEPRESSION

It was my days of little beginning. I so much loved that world, when I ride in it I hardly encounters challenges that I can't overcome, I make enquiries, meet new people, and achieve all I've ever dreamt of achieving.  And I love the world so much,THATS THE WORLD OF MY IMAGINATION. I've always wanted to be one of the best designers in the whole world.
I do spend hours envisioning in my mind how that day would be when I'd be pronounced the best. I looked forward to having all the equipments and the best designers company world wide. I always thought of how possible it'd be and deep deep down I strongly believed it would happen someday, as I'd always say ; its a matter of time.
    As a little girl I was then, I knew the future is so bright. I could feel what it was like and I never let that dream die.
But along the line I lost it, I lost the courage. I couldn't move on with that dream, the beautiful thought of becoming that dream designer started fading away, the dreams started dying and before I could say "say jack Robinson" it was gone.
One cold evening, I decided to examine myself; I searched but behold its all gone. I never knew "when" and "how" but it was all gone.
It took me time to figure out "The Why" I lost that passion, and this is it.

I earnestly searched for approval, needed families, friends that are very supportive but found no one. It was so painful how friends criticised by little beginning, it was heart breaking how every single person in the family made me feel then as if I took the worst decision ever.
And since I couldn't get the volume of support I wanted, I unknowingly allowed the dream cripple...

At the later end I discovered one thing, and that was also a lesson to me---> It doesn't really matter what friends and families think. It doesn't matter what societies think when it comes to my dreams. The only thing that matters is the great future that lies ahead, the only thing that matters are my efforts towards achieving that dream, the only thing that matters are my focus, determination,and consistency towards it.....
        My self esteem is gone, my dream was shattered and I'm depressed.
Who can help??

GETTING BETTER TODAY THAN YOU WERE YESTERDAY

There's one way I know you can get and grow better, its by having a clear GOAL.
Once you make up your mind to become the better version of who you are, the driving force behind that GOLDEN DECISION is always setting a clear goal that when you achieve it, it steps you further than you were.

I so much believe in dreams. There's no dream too big for you, there's no dream that you can't achieve no matter how big you think it is. 

What's your passion?
You love writing?
Why  not start writing today, it doesn't matter if its making sense today, just believe that one day you would make it, believe that one day you're gonna become a professional in it.
You love singing?
Start singing today, find a common ground where you can sing. Train yourself in it. And don't expect it to be big immediately, it's little by little but let your thoughts towards that be positive always.

Find a common ground where you practice your profession, find a common ground where you can learn new things, find a common ground where you can become better in that which gives you fulfilment.

It doesn't matter how the beginning is; always be positive because HOW POSITIVE YOU ARE IN PURSUIT OF YOUR GOALS DETERMINES HOW SUCCESSFUL IT'S GONNA TURN OUT TO BE.

Don't look down on the days of your little beginning, I haven't heard in the history of men that any successful man started easy. Its never easy but it gets easy along the line.
The first thing is to step out of your comfort zone first and see things work out for you.



I believe for you that you can BECOME BETTER TODAY THAN YOU WERE YESTERYEARS..
DETERMINATION AND THE RIGHT THINKING ATTITUDE IS ALL IT TAKES.

1st Goal For 019 About Dropping, Can Only Be God

This is Joy Diligence, I'm a Christian which is my identity, I'm a student, a blogger on (diligentdesk.com), and I aspire to become a known gospel artist some day..
This has been a dream ever since I was little and God in his infinite mercy is bringing me closer to that..
Its not always easy as we look with our physical eyes but it becomes easy when we fix our eyes on Jesus from whom comes inspirations and motivations..

This is the days of my little beginning.. I am trusting God for greater things to come..

The song drops soon..
    ANTICIPATE IT

A godly parent sticks closer to their children, they study the Bible together, they pray together, they play together;
They get so involved in the affairs of their children and by so doing molds them into the image of Christ for the benefit of the Church, society and the kingdom as well.

    So, be one today, for the best of our children.
God bless you!

PARENTING

PARENTING is the raising of children and all the responsibilities and activities that are involved in it.
Parenting as an act of raising or nurturing a child ranges from infancy to adulthood. It is a secret call and must be seen and treated as such.
We have productive parenting which is the parenting that yields positive results. In the christian circle or family, productive parenting should include the bringing up of children in the fear and knowledge of God.
Now I have a scriptural backup on this. In Genesis 1 vs 27 - 28 the bible said So God created a man in His own image; in the image of God he created him, male and female he created them. Then God blessed them, and said to them, "be fruitful and multiply, fill the earth and subdue it".
Going by this scripture, God created man and woman, that is, a husband and wife to bring forth children and nurture them. This assignment is not only for mothers but for fathers as well. This divine mandate carries with it lots of responsibilities, hence husband and wife must be determined to do it with absolute dependence, trust and faith in God.

LET'S LOOK AT PARENTING AS A CALL OF GOD.
Parenting is a call from God. Parents are called into the ambassadorial ministry of child nurturing which means that the children do not belong to me, they belong to God and my calling is to make the invisible presence, grace, power, and authority of God visible in the children.
Being an ambassador means you have to look on God's face, turn off your voice and use the touch of Gods hands. Parents are called not only to nurture their children to become independent and functioning adults, but to impart in them spiritual legacy. One of my greatest fear is that parents are not investing the time and energy it takes to live a spiritual legacy for their children.
For better or for worse, you as a parent are your children role model for faith! the average parents simply does not take a proactive role in building up the spiritual lives of their children. We may spend thousands of naira and hundreds of hours on things that we think are more important issues such as vacations, business plans, and home improvement. But when it comes to spiritual values, we often allow circumstances and chances to affect how we manage our family life and especially that of our calling as parents.

GODLY PARENTING; now you can go ahead and ask this question; HOW DO I GO ABOUT IT?
Key Bible Passage: Psalm 127vs1 "Unless the Lord builds the house, its builders labour in vain."

Before you can become a godly parents, you must first of all develop a passionate relationship with God which is very essential in parenting. Knowing God intimately and accepting him as Lord and Saviour makes this easier and rewarding. Children are the heritage of God and to successfully understand and nurture them perfectly, you must know their creator.

When we talk about parenting we are not only talking to parents with children we're also talking to potential parents..
As a young lady, as a young man where ever you are, try to learn something that will give you much knowledge on how to train kids in the way of the Lord, how to train them to be outstanding in the society, how to make them shine brighter like light even when they are in the midst of darkness.
And remember uninvolved parenting can do serious harm to the psychological and even physical well-being of teens.
Its impact shouldn't be taken lightly.


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CAPACITY BUILDING OR CAPACITY DEVELOPMENT

The mere fact you chose to read this article means you’re thinking you could be a better person. And who couldn’t? It’s not whether we need to be better, but whether we choose to be better. Becoming a better person means changing habits, taking some risks and thinking differently in the future. What an exciting challenge. Will other people notice? Sure they will! Will you like yourself more? You definitely will! So, what are you waiting for?

    CAPACITY BUILDING is a simple process through which an individual or group of persons gets, grows and sustain a skill, knowledge, materials needed for growth and competence in themselves first and in their fields.
   There are steps and processes to every level and height in life; let's look at INDIVIDUAL CAPACITY BUILDING. How can you develop your capacity as an individual, be you student, public or private worker.
#STEP 1_ What can you really do as an individual and what are their impacts on others? This is a very important question we should always ask ourselves as individuals with quest to grow.
Of course you must have passion for some things but do they really add value to others life? Do they make positive impacts on the people around? Can you really step up with those passions? If yes! Then you're on the right track for its the first step towards been a better YOU.

STEP 2_Think Before You Act; Think Before You Speak.
The fastest way to prevent errors is to Sit, Think, Think, and Think with ypur Ind focused Before Acting.
And the fastest way to prevent hurting people around is to think of the Ramification of your words.
So many persons have been beaten down by their own errors of jumping into actions without firstly thinking of the after effect. And many great results are birthed forth from minds fully focused on ideas that went through a thorough research. You have that brain! Use it widely; THINK BEFORE YOU ACT, THINK BEFORE YOU SAY AND NEVER SPEAK IMPULSIVELY.

#STEP 3_  Be Humanitarian, Be Teachable.
If you cultivate this habit of giving out, this habit of teaching, your journey to self capacity building has begun. You tend to learn more when you give out the knowledge you have.
Be Humanitarian, serving others around you immediately makes you better- you don't get better only in their eyes but also in your own eyes as well. The feelings that goes along with helping others will help you grow in ways you can't imagine.

Do you know that "Teenagers who struggle with self-esteem issues and identity problems grow in confidence when put in a position to serve other people". It flows naturally, you see yourself becoming g better when you are at others service.

Step 4 – Make Good Use Of Your Strengths And Abilities.
First is to discover it,so; what are your strengths? What are your abilities? What can you do and how best are you doing g it?
Many persons died in their old age with virgin potentials, untouched abilities and great Strengths.
They could have been better if they had made good use of it.

Sometimes our fear could be what people would say or think, but do they matter? Yes thee do matter but should that stop you from taking a step into greatness? No they shouldn't.
Make a list of what you do well and figure out how to use it in creative ways. Don’t neglect your natural abilities or talents because they belong to you.

Step 5 – Recognize Your Weaknesses.
Addressing your weaknesses is a huge step toward becoming a better person, but remember, the goal isn’t to be perfect. It’s the striving to improve, that makes us better people.

Without being overly self-critical, make a list of your weaknesses. Note ways to strengthen those weaknesses when you have time. Focus on one at a time and create specific strategies for improvement. For example, if you tend to overwork, set aside time to relax and play. This will improve your attitude and your health.

If you have difficulty recognizing weaknesses, ask a close friend or loved one to gently break a few of them to you. Personally, I can be over critical in my tone.
I have asked my loved ones to let me know when I slip, but they are kind enough to do it in a loving way before I hurt someone. As they point it out, I am less inclined to do it. If necessary, ask a friend or family member to help you be accountable. Make sure you let them know that you don’t want a master list of everything you’ve ever done wrong.
Change takes time and you should revel in small victories along the way. Always remember that you are a work in progress.

Step 6 – Take Better Care of Yourself
Women have a serious tendency to neglect themselves at times. Whether it is stress induced, relationship issues or poor self-esteem, we let ourselves go. It can even happen when we’re comfortable in a relationship.

When you take care of yourself, you demonstrate respect for yourself. Women who are concerned about their health and appearance on a regular basis tend to do a better job of interacting and serving other people. Your family, your spouse and your friends will all appreciate it.

Step 7 – Show Your Appreciation.
It’s easy to take other people for granted. Your friends sacrifices a lot for you all the time, Your spouse always picks up the kids from school and spends Saturdays beautifying your home. Your best friend never forgets your birthday and will make you feel special at the last minute. Your parents did the best they could and love you despite your weaknesses. Your employees work hard for you every single day.  The people you suddenly only meet, the not-too-friends all hold you together on a daily basis. There are so many people who make our lives comfortable and complete, some of whom we rarely even see. How could you thank them? All it takes is a nice note, a hug, a plate of food or even a gift, kind words and gestures.

And the last but never the least
Step 8 – Explore Your Spirituality
Faith allows me to get through some pretty challenging days. It also encourages me to improve myself and strive to make a positive impact on those around me. If you don’t have a spiritual life, consider exploring that option. Prayer, meditation, removing your thoughts from yourself and loving your fellow man can greatly improve who you are.

Following any or all of the eight steps can help you make major changes. Just remember to take on a little at a time, and do small things well before leaping into big changes. As you create positive habits in your life, you will become a better person. Soon you won’t even realize you’re doing it. The exciting part is that other people will definitely notice!